tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327969992024-03-07T13:16:01.670-08:00Spotty Horse NewsStories from our ever-evolving journey to be better horse-peopleJessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.comBlogger908125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-63912250191217483412020-12-27T10:45:00.000-08:002020-12-27T10:45:18.019-08:00When things endIt has been over five years since my last post and many, many things have
changed. One of the most significant changes was the loss of The Spotty Horse
Herself in April of 2016. <div><br /></div><div>I wrote about it then for our local horse publication
but I never posted it here. I don't really know why except this blog had ceased
to hold my time and attention as I moved more and more of my time and energy
into teaching SCUBA and exploring the world under the waves. </div><div><br /></div><div>Here is what I
wrote then, not knowing more changes were on the horizon. Perhaps this is my way
of saying good bye to 2020 and opening the door to 2021, perhaps it's just me
remembering how I got here.</div><div><br /></div><div>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />
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We didn’t start out to be a horse family at all, it just kind of happened. One
day, we were riding horses at a ranch near Yosemite and WHAM the next day we had
Lena. We spent that first two years as a one-horse family, Lena having enough
energy and attention-seeking behavior to manage three humans with ease. Then
along came Calabar, adding a whole new personality--one that balanced Lena in
interesting ways and gave us a lot of adventures as a two-horse family. This
year has brought us painfully back to being a one-horse family. It’s still too
raw and too new to know how this will play out but it’s part of this journey we
chose when we brought home our first horse, that beautiful spotty mare that
changed us forever. </div><div><br /></div><div>Okay, so it was a little more involved than WHAM. We wanted
to take my daughter Katie on an adventure and found this ranch in Gold Country
that offered fun (not nose-to-tail) trail rides and cutting lessons. We rode
entertaining horses for a year and a half, always coming home limping for the
next week, never complaining but never really improving, either. What? Take
lessons at home? Pssht. We leapt right in and decided to buy one of the animated
and intelligent horses we’d been riding, opening our hearts and our world to
Lena Rey Flo. Steve says it was her energy and wanting to build on our family
but I think it was those long eyelashes and big curly ears. </div><div><br /></div><div>Lena was a sensitive
and responsive horse--gentle with beginners but a taskmaster with you if she
thought you knew better. She taught us all a lot and she loved being an only
horse. Really. Three humans to worship me? Most excellent, said the princess. We
were enough different to keep her entertained and she got more than enough
exercise and attention. Trail rides were an exercise in sharing. When it was
just two of us, one would ride out and one would ride back. When Katie was with
us, it was mostly walking for Steve and me but it was always a good adventure
even from the ground. </div><div><br /></div><div>Then I fell in love with Calabar and we had a different
horse-to-human ratio--we had an ex-racehorse, Lena had a boyfriend, a protector
and someone to antagonize through the pipe panel. She adored him. He mostly
adored her but more importantly he became a part of our family. Sometimes the
black sheep but always willing to be the sidekick to Lena’s over-the-top
presence. We had a little over 8 years as a two-horse family, years with trail
rides and cow adventures and counting out treats and carrots evenly because they
were certainly keeping track. </div><div><br /></div><div>And then one day it came to an end. </div><div><br /></div><div>The reasons
don’t really matter. She, in her normal dramatic fashion, injured herself in
ways that were ultimately not fixable. We all said goodbye to her on a sunny
morning that should have been darker and full of clouds but wasn’t. Lena heard
me leading Calabar up the path and whinnied for him before she could even see
him, knowing beyond a doubt the rhythm of his footfalls. Calabar nuzzled her,
gave her a nip, then stood quietly nearby while we waited for the vet to come.
When I tried to put him away, Lena got so frantic, I brought him back. We waited
for the first shot to take effect before I walked him away from her the last
time. </div><div><br /></div><div>And then it was over. A different and altogether worse kind of WHAM. </div><div><br /></div><div>Sometimes I think Calabar still looks for her, I know I do. And then I remember.
We’re a one horse family again. This is the way it started and there will still
be adventures for Calabar, Steve and me. They will just be different adventures
than what we had planned. Life is like that, I guess, and there is a lot more
living to do. Lena says so from wherever she is. With a big throaty whinny and
probably even a squeal of joy on top of that. </div><div><br /></div><div>To the spotty horse who became my
first muse, I say thanks. You were the best first horse this family could have
wished for.
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I am still diving and I still have Calabar. Steve and I moved apart but are still good friends and see each other regularly. I moved in with my boyfriend and his kids and grandchildren last year, got to try lobster diving and certified a lot of divers before, well, you know - COVID. It's a full house but I've had the pleasure of SIP with all of them. Sometimes it's hard, but having the chance to be a part of their lives has been pretty amazing. </div><div><br /></div><div>Calabar is 20 this year and as feisty as
ever. I'm not riding but that is my New Years Resolution for 2021. He is definitely not ready for retirement. Definitely. Not. </div><div><br /></div><div>Re-reading
some of my older posts reminds me of the balance (both mental and physical) that
connection to this horse gives me. Grounding. Peace. Joy. Required therapy after
2020? I'd say yes.
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Happy New Year (almost) to the whole world. May we all find a way through the
rest of 2020 and, as I said in many a Christmas card this year, May 2021 NOT suck.
</div>Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-86945924924796127222015-04-05T18:49:00.000-07:002015-04-05T18:49:04.761-07:00The diver and the ex-racehorseOnce upon a time, there was a woman who--like many women do--discovered horses later in her life and, once hooked, jumped in with her whole being. Then, a little bit later in life, she discovered scuba diving and--as with the horse fetish--dove in with all the enthusiasm previously laser-focused on soft noses and not landing on the hard ground.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Much hard work and cool sunglasses make for pretty poses.</i></td></tr>
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Why on earth she, er, I decided we needed two such gear-intensive, expensive hobbies could be worthy of a deep and philosophical conversation... or seven. Luckily, there just isn't time to figure out what I'm making up for with all of this because there's just too much fun to be had.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>A gnome in scuba gear!</i></td></tr>
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However, trying to balance the two interests has not been easy and--try as I might--there doesn't seem to be a way to do both things at once. I'm also pretty sure the warranty on my gear would not cover horse-induced damage like trampling or being dragged through the sand--probably with me still in it.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Forcing my horse to wear scuba gear in the name of art?</i></td></tr>
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"Hey, Calabar.. why don't you hang out on the beach and wait for me while I go play underwater for an hour? Oh, and do you mind if I weigh an extra 70 pounds with all my gear on on our way out to the beach? What was that? Carry it my own damn self through the deep sand? Oh...um, okay."<br />
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It is plausible that he would hang out on the beach and wait for me. Maybe. Carrying the gear out is a definite no. He says he is NOT a pack mule and the beach is for rolling in the deep sand and running on the hard-packed sand, not for doing something silly like going underwater. Who would want to do that, anyway? Crazy human.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>"You are out of your mind, silly little neoprene-clad human."</i></td></tr>
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And Lena says things that inflate--like <a href="http://www.padi.com/scuba-diving/padi-courses/about-scuba-gear/buoyancy-control-devices-%28BCD%29/" target="_blank">BCDs</a>--are for <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pq4iGMVnQJY" target="_blank">eventers</a>, not cow ponies. Notice there are no photos of her in anything resembling scuba gear, oh no.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>"Oh, no. There will be no scuba gear on this beautiful face."</i></td></tr>
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So until I find a way to merge my two worlds--which would likely incur the wrath of animal rights organizations across the planet--I'll just have to dive some days and ride other days.<br />
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Life could really be a lot worse.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-19087731164728298272014-09-06T13:50:00.001-07:002014-09-06T13:55:15.846-07:00Writing and ridingI'm not sure how it happened that my time has been so swallowed up by other things that blogging has fallen off my to-do list but it very obviously has done just that. Much of it stems from the overwhelming feeling that revelations and insights about my relationships with the horses could not possibly be as interesting to others as they are (sometimes) earthshaking--or at very least head-shaking--to me.<br />
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Calabar and I are still working on our riding and we seem to be cooperating better than ever these days. He needs a confident hand--or as Allie says, more leg--and somewhere along the line, I found that in myself. At least most days. It also appears I've forgotten how to ride in a western saddle, so I'll be working on that with Lena and hoping I don't irritate her too much in the process. My left foot refuses to stay in the stirrup at a canter, regardless of what direction I'm going or how short the stirrups are. I have no idea what's causing this so my only solution is to toss that heavy saddle up more than every other month or so.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">After Allie tortured my by raising the stirrups</td></tr>
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We still have not gotten out on the trail this year but the trailer is in good repair so if I can stop making us too many plans on the weekends, it could actually happen now that weekends are back to normal. I'd been working Sunday-Thursday which left Saturday as cleaning and family errand day. Convincing Steve to play hooky on a Friday was never as successful as I'd hoped it might be. Oh, well.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">It's like riding a bike? </td></tr>
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We did get up to Slide in July and had a nice time despite inferno-like temperatures. We didn't ride as much as we planned because of the heat, but Allie got to work the mechanical cow on Lena, Adrienne got to ride again after a long (6 years?) break and we got to catch up with Ike and Cheri. It's a gift in life to know people you can reconnect with easily, like the last two years were only a couple weeks. The plan is to visit in October next year when temperatures should be less horrid.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Lena shows Allie how to chase a cow</td></tr>
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Calabar and Lena also got to meet Tuffy which was an interesting experience for all of us. Neither of them, to my knowledge, has been around foals much. They were totally enthralled with this tiny baby horse. Even my big, brown gelding was completely enchanted by this little being.<br />
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"No, we can't have one," we said.<br />
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"Are you SURE?" they said.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Tuffy is <b><i>right</i></b> there!"</td></tr>
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"Oh, yes. We're sure."<br />
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So.. I am continuing to learn and am finding a bond with Calabar that deepens with every ride. Do I have the need to share each and every milestone? Not so much any more. I have some other writing projects I'm working on and he plays a part in them, as does Lena, but my journey here has hit a bit of an impasse. Will I come back to it? I probably will here and there. I love my horses and the joy, grounding and comic relief they toss into my life on a regular basis. Sharing that with the world is simply not a priority for me anymore.<br />
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I think that's okay, at least for now.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-74349647193373976332014-07-20T18:22:00.000-07:002014-07-20T18:22:31.347-07:00Headed to Slide MountainAfter a lovely diving vacation last month, it's pony time! We are headed up to Slide Mountain Ranch with Calabar and Lena to spend some time trail riding, swimming, hiking and whatever other trouble we can get into up in the Sierra foothills.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Wreck diving in Cozumel--another great if expensive hobby!</td></tr>
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Ike and Cheri no longer have the guest business, so we are staying in a house in Twain Harte near the lake and leaving the horses at the ranch. This means they will not hear the toilet flush at 4 a.m. and assume I'm coming out to feed them. Or maybe they will but I won't be there to hear them start whinnying for breakfast. I am trying not to be concerned about not being right there and am mostly succeeding. It would have been better if we'd had more practice being away from the barn of late, but with life being life, that hasn't happened.<br />
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It's been way too long since we had them out, even just to trail ride. That's nearly entirely due to my work schedule--I was working Sunday to Thursday, with Friday and Saturday off, leaving us with only Saturday to do family stuff. I went back to Monday through Friday after we got back from Cozumel, so a normal weekend schedule should allow for more trail riding. However, with this, that and several other things, we still didn't get them out before we head up to Slide on Thursday.<br />
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I'm sure it will be fine and they will settle down nicely. Certainly they will after a few hundred laps around the arena and up and down the mountain behind the ranch.<br />
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Really, though, it's just a chance to get away and see people we really like and play with the horses away from the arena.<br />
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Maybe this time I can even get Calabar to work the mechanical cow!<br />
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"Right," he says, "Only real cows, not bags of socks."<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Why am I chasing a bag of socks?"</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Duh! Because it's fun, Calabar!!" says Lena.</td></tr>
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Updates on Ike and Cheri, the new foal and Calabar's progress with cow chasing--plus plenty of pictures of Lena actually <i>working </i>the mechanical cow because <i>she</i> thinks it's fun--coming soon.<br />
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-76625296736220447672014-06-13T22:05:00.000-07:002014-06-13T22:05:57.125-07:00Calabar the CalmThat title is not a typo. I'm not 100% sure it's not a behavioral anomaly, but it is not a typo. Not lately. And while I don't want to jinx myself (or him), I also want to give the big brown horse some credit for his hard work and dedication to being cooperative. Especially at dinner time. (His, not mine. Mine comes after his.)<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">What are we doing? Besides drooling a little, I mean.</td></tr>
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He is attentive. He is relaxed. He is full of curiosity and playfulness. I have been experimenting with loose reins and a bareback pad, relying on balance and trust--letting go of a need to completely control him--and believing we work better together than bouncing in different directions. This is hard at a trot where there is a lot of bouncing but it turns out we can actually get in sync. The canter is, however, much more divine.<br />
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It seems when I let go of the need to control, which stems from the fear that still lurks in my psyche, he relaxes. And when he relaxes, I relax.<br />
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Ah.<br />
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Epiphanies are sometimes so very hard to get to. At least until they hit you in the head with a resounding "thunk." Or "think." It might be "think." Unless I think too much and then the thunk is better.<br />
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As I've often said--though likely in different words and turns of phrase--going with logic would have brought me to a different horse. The thunk of my heart when I first met Calabar definitely overrode the think part of the equation.<br />
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Leading with my heart has (mostly always) turned out to be the right thing. Even if he reverts to Calabar the goofy tomorrow, it's been well worth it to walk, trot and canter this road with him.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-38334598056044428462014-06-07T17:11:00.000-07:002014-06-07T17:11:36.477-07:00Missed May entirelyWhere on earth did May go? Jeeze.<br />
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There were some changes in my life but I can't believe that I missed an entire month! However, it is apparent that I did.<br />
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Many changes. I parted ways with <a href="http://neighsavers.com/" target="_blank">Neigh Savers</a>, which was hard but likely best for all concerned. Especially best for Calabar and Lena who would prefer I spend time with them and not horses that are not, well, mine.<br />
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I started working Fridays at the dive shop I frequent (<a href="http://sonomacoastdivers.com/" target="_blank">Sonoma Coast Divers</a>) because I love diving almost as much as I love horse smooches. Which is a lot in both cases. This means I technically only have one day off a week but it is worth it! Retail is a whole new experience and I'm learning more about another sport I love! How awesome is that?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Calabar on my tank. My worlds collide.</td></tr>
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In my now more limited spare time, I'm working on a project that combines both my passions--horses and diving--in a way that I hope will impact the lives of humans and horses--especially ex-racehorses.<br />
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We are headed to Cozumel on June 20th for a dive trip. Expect interesting updates!Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-16310772998712793282014-04-26T18:24:00.000-07:002014-04-26T18:24:20.402-07:00Who's listened to you lately?Horses have a lot to say but humans are not always good at hearing it. We get caught up in our own timelines, our own plans, and stop hearing anything outside of our own heads as we pursue that goal on the horizon, whatever it may be. This strategy can keep us focused on the end game but might make us miss some things on the way. Like an opportunity to connect with a big, brown racehorse. Or the universe. Could be the same thing some days of the week.<br />
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As they transition away from their life on the track, ex-racehorses can be surprised by the new things they encounter in this strange new world of not-the-track. They adapt well--with a little time and patience--to cross-ties, being outdoors, dirt, heavy western saddles, weird games non-track people play and more. What sometimes surprises them most is having someone slow down and listen to them.<br />
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The people on the track (for the most part) do love and care for their horses. They know them, their personalities and quirks, and do what needs to get done to keep horses healthy and running. And they spend a lot of time doing that. But it is a business and very often things have to happen on a timeline--a human timeline around workout times and race days and the ticking of a clock that a horse doesn't necessarily hear.</div>
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Despite the human energy around them, some horses expect you to be listening. Lena not only expects it, she demands it and woe betide you if you go off somewhere else while you're riding. The ground can be nearly as unforgiving. She is a very expressive (some might say dramatic) mare. Not very affectionate in general but you can always tell when she doesn't feel well because suddenly her big head is in your chest with the likelihood being that she'd sit in your lap if she could. That's when--if you're listening--you be sure you have the vet's phone number close at hand. She's also extremely good at telling you when you are off-kilter in the saddle. "I think I'll zig zag now because you are posting on some crazy diagonal." </div>
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Calabar did not expect anyone to hear what he had to say. Not really. He came to me certain he had to take charge because it was unlikely I would fathom the thoughts going on inside his big brown head. He was right at first, but he--more than any other horse--taught me to listen. There have been many incidents along the way that have cemented our relationship--from what liniment he prefers to saving him from the yellow jackets--and I've had the enormous pleasure to watch others prove themselves to him by simply hearing what he had to say. </div>
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"Oh, I think I ran a hot nail," said my farrier after Calabar reared slightly in the cross ties while Mike held a front foot. Did Mike get mad? Nope. And not without cause. Calabar has not always been overly-cooperative for Mike. Mike stopped, pulled the nail and I swear I saw relief flow across that big brown horse's face. He even smooched Mike and has become easier to shoe since then.</div>
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Often the racehorses I've worked with are like Calabar. They've seen a lot, they've been handled a lot, but they haven't always been listened to a lot. Or not always when it mattered. And it's not just racehorses in that boat, there are plenty of horses out in the world with owners who don't want to or can't listen for whatever their reasons are. Those humans are missing a very important part of the conversation, of the relationship they could have with their horse, but they must like that path through the world.</div>
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I have seen that look of surprise and relief on more than one of the Neigh Savers horses I've worked with when I didn't get mad, when I didn't force an issue, when I stopped and said, "How can I explain this to you better so you understand me?" Or, "Why is this thing hard for you?" Or "What do you feel like doing today?" Or even just, "How do you like to be groomed?" Maybe this spot is sore or that spot needs a little massage or there is an itchy spot that just has to get scratched. Find them and show that you are paying attention, that you hear them even when they don't use words.<br />
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Many of the horses also like to know what it is your doing. Show them the product you're going to spray on them, let them smell it. Take the time to let them understand and agree and you start to build that conversation so when the bigger issues come up--like cross ties and western saddles and large bodies of water--you've got a track record of trust behind you. </div>
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It can get frustrating sometimes, of course. You've got stuff to do and the horse is bouncing away from you for some unknown (to you) reason. Lena likes to move. She likes to dance and prance and will spook just to entertain herself on occasion. Getting aggravated really doesn't help and merely lets her know she's won the latest round. Pretending you actually knew what she was going to do, however, that accomplishes many feats. In other words, go with it then find a way to slow her down and engage her brain more so there is less mental energy going towards practicing her sideways canter.<br />
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In other words, you also have to know when they are playing a game and call them on it. Ironically, this ends up building trust because they realize you have them figured out at least a little bit which means you were actually paying attention. Listening. Observing. Smothering laughter on occasion.<br />
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When you've been practicing your listening skills, it means you can often anticipate behavior.Any chance to prove you know what you're doing gives you that much more confidence and leadership which goes a very long way with 1,200 pounds. Not over-reacting when they do their silly thing and controlling it when they do it is sometimes anti-climactic but much more fun. Especially when they realize they've been had.<br />
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After a lunge session in the indoor arena awhile back, Calabar spied Peter doing battle with the terrifying patch of blackberry bushes in the back corner of the outdoor arena and we absolutely had to investigate. He didn't drag me but our pace was brisk and he would have had his nose in the bushes as Peter flung cut pieces around us if I hadn't kept the brown horse back a step or two. </div>
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After our inspection, we turned to leave and I KNEW as soon as the butt end of my horse was pointed towards Peter and the bushes, Calabar would do what I call a "spin and face the danger." I could say I am so connected to my horse that I picked up on his psychic energy but it's really just as simple as sensing his more obvious Thoroughbred energy and reviewing past experiences.<br />
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So, yes. He did spin--a beautiful pivot off his front end, his butt swinging away from me at an impressive rate of speed--just so he could see what he'd just been looking at two seconds ago.. I looked up at him and asked if he was done. He looked at me, sighed and dropped his head to a normal level as we sauntered back up the hill so he could finish his dinner. There was a time I would have gotten mad and over-corrected him, but over time I stopped that silly human behavior (because he learned to stay out of my space with all his antics) and our adventures ceased escalating into madness. Funny how that works.<br />
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Listening, tuning out the background noise in your own head and just paying attention, is hard. But man is it ever worth it when they know you've actually heard them and give you their trust. Even if it's just for an instant, it's an instant you can build on, an instant you won't get without stopping to hear.</div>
Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-76024015543748287542014-04-26T18:08:00.000-07:002014-04-26T18:08:36.931-07:00The journey doesn't end, it is ever-evolvingRecently, someone responded to a message in a way that intimated they thought I was under delusions of grandeur about my horsemanship abilities.<br />
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Good gravy, no. Obviously, they have never read this blog wherein I frequently highlight my foibles, faults and faux pas and where many of you ever-so-kindly remind me not to be too hard on myself.<br />
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All the steps we take, especially the ones that go backwards, are part of the journey towards being a better horse person but there is no ultimate finish, no golden carrot of perfect horsemanship. There is only the next thing to learn and the next "Aha!" be it with Calabar or Lena or any other horse that might cross my path.</div>
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Calabar has probably taught me the most but Lena has offered her own version of the world as she knows (and prefers) it. Using Calabar tools on Lena won't always work. In fact, they rarely work. Going over a jump is a great way to get Calabar to have fun and relax so we can go back to (as he says) "dumb" trot work. To Lena, going over a jump is a horrid form of torture to be rushed through as quickly as possible so we can get back to more fun things. Like cantering big, lazy circles or running barrels.<br />
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Learning is hard and sometimes frustrating but without the willingness to question what you're doing and try new things, it is hard to improve or grow in anything you do. Some people have a hard time with this, hate getting out of their comfort zone and facing a little risk. Steve recently came back from a work trip where he suggested some of the other programmers learn a new version of a programming language in order to update one of the systems. They looked at him like he had three heads.<br />
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I sometimes feel like I have three heads--all of them telling me to do something else--when I'm working through something with the horses, but that's actually the best part. There is always more to learn, more they can teach you, about everything. How to ride is only part of it. Your energy and the way it impacts those around you. How to listen. How to treat mystery wounds and sporadic ailments that appear out of nowhere.<br />
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Even my grand-horse has given me lessons. Forrest recently moved to the big pasture and has been instrumental in teaching me more about herd dynamics. He is definitely a lover, not a fighter, and is luckily faster than the horse in charge of the small band of four (now five) horses. My attempts to show him how to send "Go away" vibes towards that alpha horse have so far resulted in Forrest hiding behind me, but there is hope he will learn and the observations have been valuable to me in any case. Apparently, I'm a little scary. Who knew?<br />
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Figuring out the best path forward, being willing to try, to keep evolving my skills, my relationships with my horses--that is the only real goal worth pursuing. Anything else, like someday actually looking like I know how to ride, is just icing on the cake. </div>
Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-63933721979908781722014-04-04T10:20:00.001-07:002014-04-04T10:20:39.285-07:00Bouncy horses<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Remember these? I can still hear the sound of the springs squeaking maniacally as I did my level best to launch myself to the sky.<br />
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My horse (and several others at the barn) are channeling their plastic imitator this week. Spring, green grass, cool weather and some sunshine have all added up to wild ponies showing off their inner dragons. Or maybe just showing off to one another in the ageless dance of spring, trying to prove they are a good mate.<br />
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I'm not sure what good bucking and farting does for him, but Calabar put on quite a show last night when I turned him loose in the arena--highest bucks I've seen him do in quite awhile. Maybe he was adjusting his pelvis? Or maybe he was just feeling strong and healthy and thrilled to be able to run a little.<br />
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Lena just likes to wander around and sniff things--probably looking for stray carrots--but it's good for her to relax and wander a bit. She reserves her silliness for spooky corners and the dreaded jump poles. We practice WALKING over the jump. Not hopping. Not bolting over it. WALKING. Thinking is good, too.<br />
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Even though the horses are all spring-loaded at the moment, I'm looking forward to spring and sunny days after all this much-needed rain. And thankful we finally got all this rain. Having the hills summertime brown in late winter was disturbing for horses and humans alike.<br />
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Happy Spring!<br />
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-19528964265372866332014-04-02T22:04:00.000-07:002014-04-02T22:04:14.600-07:00Of wet poop and gratitudeSteve has been in Minnesota for over a week, now. The house is too quiet, the bed is too cold, and I've lost weight because I'm too lazy to cook so I just eat a salad when I get home.<br />
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Cry me a river, right?<br />
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It is not that I don't appreciate Steve when he's here, I absolutely do. I'd like to think my gratitude is ever-present and obvious, given whole-heartedly and with much enthusiasm, but perhaps I had forgotten just how much there is to be thankful for around here.<br />
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This wet week in Northern California has dumped quite a lot of rain on us. This is another reason to be happy and grateful, but it adds weight to horse poop and unused hay.<br />
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Who needs CrossFit? I have wet, soggy, heavy horse poop to swing up, over and then into the poop cart. Pretty sure that move has a much cooler name in some gym somewhere. Once upon a time, I think I used a fancy machine in a gym that mimicked that tighten-twist-lift thing that is oh-so-much better with a rake full of soggy poop. Never underestimate the added benefit of weight at the end of a poo-rake for building core strength. Or throwing out your back if you're not careful. That, too. Add to that wrestling heavy bales of hay into their proper storage place. Bales that weigh almost as much as I do and are pokey--it's like wrestling a porcupine into a shoe box.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Muddy brown horse saying more hay would be great.</td></tr>
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But while I'm getting a great workout, I am also burning daylight hours that could be spent riding. And I could absolutely ride after I clean. If I didn't want to eat at 9 o'clock (which I don't) or go to bed at an hour that makes my 5:30 a.m. wake up time not so horrid. (Gotta have my eight hours or things get ugly.)<br />
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So this temporary routine while Steve is gone makes me deeply appreciate the fact that the poop is normally cleaned up and the horses have already been grained by the time I get to the barn. All I have to do is groom and ride and make it home for dinner. Which is usually cooked and waiting for me.<br />
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Makes me sound like a princess a little, yeah?<br />
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Apparently, Lena is not the only one who needs a tiara.<br />
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Steve says cooking is self-preservation. I know it's really that he wants to eat well and relying on me for that is NOT A GOOD PLAN. Ever. I burn things. A lot.<br />
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Am I glad he's coming home Thursday? Why yes, yes I am.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-41983732212803834352014-03-29T20:13:00.000-07:002014-03-30T07:41:35.373-07:00Aahh, SpringSpring is here, and with it comes mud (thanks to much-needed rain) and lots of shedding as winter coats slick out on their way to being summer coats.<br />
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We have hair, lots of hair, coming off both Bar and Lena in gobs. Some of it ended up on the groomer (me), but a lot of it ended up in the barn alley in piles of radically different colors and textures. Lena's hair is thicker and the white hair seems to be shedding out faster. Calabar has a soft, downy undercoat and it gets in my mouth as it fluffs off in clouds under the shedding blade.<br />
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This first pass was just the beginning.<br />
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And my horses love the mud. They are quite creative in their self-decoration, both of them.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Gorgeous muddy spotty horse</td></tr>
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Calabar even managed to ice his backside, which means there were some gymnastics.<br />
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Good to know my horse was self-adjusting his long spine.<br />
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I'm glad we are getting rain, really glad. Even if it means my horses are either muddy or blanketed. Blanketed if I want to ride or muddy if I don't mind taking time to groom for awhile before getting on.<br />
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Ah, spring. It's lovely.<br />
<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-70964276277243410332014-03-22T19:50:00.001-07:002014-03-22T19:52:14.217-07:00Working with Faulty ConfirmationNot Calabar's or Lena's, no. They have quite nice confirmation, actually. We are talking about my confirmation, which is not as perfect as it perhaps could be. This is becoming more and more apparent as I continue to beef up my exercise program and find new places that ache along the way.<br />
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Like most of us, I am not symmetrical. There are some left over injuries and skeletal imperfections that make me short and tight on the right side, sore and scrunched on the left side. No worries, though--it is what it is and I am able to be as active as I have time and energy for. When I'm in the saddle, the horses are very good at informing me that I've started to twist to compensate. Standing on my own two feet, however, it has proven to be more of a challenge to uncurl my body from that muscle memory-induced corkscrew. Standing, walking, and now adding a little jogging? Well, that has led to some aches and pains that only get worse if I stop moving.<br />
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Really, it's just a knee that is aggravating me the most but it turns out the knee bone is actually connected to the hip bone. Or rather, hip stability plays a big part in my way of going and I need more stability in my life to support the legs that meander down to the ground below those hips.<br />
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So I've been working on that, doing special exercises designed to increase hip stability--all added onto my existing core work that helps keep me upright and saves my back from itself. Not to mention a lot of foam rolling and stretching. In case you don't have one, a foam roller is a great tool for loosening up tight muscles of all kinds.<br />
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But back to having my own two feet on the ground and a brief conversation with the chiropractor (and friend) who hands down all these good exercises. A conversation in which it was revealed to me that my knees like to rotate in. What? My posture is excellent--I get compliments on it all the time. Shoulders are back, chest open, head and neck perched above shoulders in excellent alignment. But the knees? The knees do roll inwards towards each other making me, yes, knock-kneed. I think the good doctor used a more medically-approved term, but knees pointing at each other are by any other name, well, knocking.<br />
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Drat.<br />
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Could this be why I end up with bruises on the inside of these traitorous knees when I ride? Compounded by my twisted hips, however, I usually only end up with a bruise on the inside of one knee--the left. So my body is showing me where things are amiss, and I just need to pay attention.<br />
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It is hard, by the way, to retrain a 47-year old body to use muscles and structures the way they are strongest, the way they were designed to be used. Rotating those knees out activates my glute muscles in ways that feel right if not necessarily comfortable at this exact moment in time. And, here's the kicker, when I get the knees in the right place, my right foot rotates up onto the outside, pronating out to do some sort of odd compensation thing, while my left hip goes to it's default up-and-to-the-right location. There is a lot of concentration required to make my body stop the march to its comfort zone.<br />
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So I practice. I practice while I brush my teeth in the morning. I practice when I stand at the sink doing dishes. I really practice when I'm lifting weights--might as well try to retrain more than one set of muscles at a time, right?<br />
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And, yes, I try to practice in the saddle, too. It goes better some days than other days, but at least in the saddle, there is instant feedback I can't ignore. "You're doing it again," says the ear flicking back towards me.<br />
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Going back to the body I was born with, or even going back to the way it was before I did some of the damage, is not realistic. So working with what I've got and--just like life--figuring ways to make it better is the only option.<br />
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One solid, balanced step at a time.<br />
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-11126911917875779322014-01-24T22:49:00.000-08:002014-01-24T22:49:43.852-08:00Lena and her opposite friend CalabarPrior to our day of dentistry today, I took Miss Lena Rey out for a little play time in the arena. She obliged my camera habit by being her lovely and photogenic self and obliged herself by rolling extensively in several corners of the arena. Watching her reminded me--again--how different our two horses are.<br />
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Almost like a reflection of their personalities, their mouths and their attitudes towards being drugged and doctored differ, too.<br />
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Calabar's mouth is still a work in progress. The first time we got his teeth done, Leslie said, "If he's ever had his teeth done, I can't tell." That was many years and many floatings ago and we are finally in maintenance mode with him. No ulcers on his cheeks this time, no nasty hook on his back tooth. He is, however, certain that while he is weakened by whatever we've injected into him, SOMETHING will happen. And it is likely to be very, very bad. It is no matter that nothing really bad has actually ever happened to him while in our care. Lena has room to worry, having had Leslie's arm up her rear once and a tube down her nose shortly thereafter. Calabar has had no such experiences and yet his defensiveness persists.<br />
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Lena has a mouth as good as her big, thick-walled hooves. She had some hooks today, but she had gone longer between dentist appointments while we did a little in-between work to clean up Calabar's mouth. Leslie was still in and out in maybe 30 minutes. Tops. She was well-drugged, yes, but she still approaches things with a confidence that it will all turn out okay. It probably means she has had many less reasons to doubt her humans than Calabar does, though we have made many (very) long strides in our journey together.<br />
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Calabar goes under but is never quite relaxed, still holding his jaw tight and biting the floats Leslie uses at the end to do the final clean up, pushing his tongue into her way. Lena, on the other hand, descends into her happy place and lets Leslie get in and work, no fuss, no argument.<br />
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They have had different paths to our family and it shows. I love them both for who they are, as different as they are. <br />
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I love Calabar for the many things he has taught me and the many things we have yet to learn.<br />
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And I love Lena for her open honesty and trust, as reflected in her lovely and beautiful face.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The lovely Lena Rey</td></tr>
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-62717023353474152632014-01-11T19:28:00.002-08:002014-01-11T19:28:56.850-08:00Once upon a timeIt's amazing what technology can do.<br />
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For instance, linking my new phone to various accounts means my photo gallery contains gems from the photo archives I might have forgotten about.<br />
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Like the face of the horse I fell in love with back in 2007. He looks younger, different, than he does now. And I love him even more now after what all we've learned together.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Oh, that sweet face. Little did I know. :)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And a more typical expression.</td></tr>
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Or the first time we took Lena to the beach all by her lonesome. Well, except for Katie, Steve and me, of course. This is Lena demonstrating her athletic abilities against those fearful logs.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Logs.. less scary than waves.</td></tr>
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As I scroll back in time, there are many photos reminding me of roads we've all traveled with the horses. There is also hindsight--a look of confusion or anxiety on Calabar's face that I missed way back then. Or a smile on my face that reminds me I have always loved both horses in spite of sometimes less than stellar behavior on their parts.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Aw, so cute. Right before they broke my ribs in 2010.</td></tr>
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I rode through an antic last night--one of those unexplained spooks that make no sense to anyone but the horse spooking--and realized my butt is stickier than it used to be. Or perhaps my balance is better. Or maybe I just know my horse well enough now to stay with him during the anticipated squirt forward in "that corner" of the arena.<br />
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"What was that?" I asked.<br />
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"Um, two big trucks leaving at the same time?" said Calabar. (Last time it was a bird screeching outside the arena.)<br />
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"Oh. Can we get back to what we were doing, now?"<br />
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And we do. Or we take a few moments to do something familiar, something we both know, so the focus comes back.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Pretending we know what we're doing.</td></tr>
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Because the great thing about horses is there is always now, which means you are always moving forward--even if you have to step backwards to do it.<br />
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The great thing about my horses is they always keep it interesting.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Are we done dressing up, yet?"</td></tr>
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-34597022433558265752014-01-01T11:26:00.001-08:002014-01-24T22:51:18.752-08:00Year of the HorseWelcome to 2014--the Year of the Horse according to Chinese astrology.<br />
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It's been the year of the horse for me for over eight years, since that August afternoon in 2005 when Lena Rey Flo stepped off the trailer and into our lives for good. Or for evil, depending on her mood. Since then, we have added to our equine family as well as introduced extended our reach to include the Neigh Savers horses that have passed through on their way to new homes.<br />
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Here are some of my favorite shots from 2013, including a fitting one of Lena with her Christmas crown:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Finally an appropriate outfit," she says.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dixie (a successful NS adoptee) at her first show</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Another NS adoptee, Clyde, with his new mom Mary Sue. I got a friend out of this deal, too!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My darling daughter was busy this year and is on her way to<br />
exciting adventures in the land of EMT-ness.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Calabar made friends with Allie who lets him jump over things.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And another horse-free interlude in Catalina.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Star Nicholas, aptly named, came in October...</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Got dressed up once..</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And again for the holidays..</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And moved to LA to pursue an acting career.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My own horse sporting feathers. "Really, Mom?"</td></tr>
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We had a lot of adventures in 2013--no wonder the year flew by! Things may look a little different for 2014 but it will, astrologically speaking or not, still be a year of horses for us.<br />
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Happy New Year!Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-55240025633020274262013-11-16T19:09:00.001-08:002013-11-16T19:09:24.168-08:00Teaching (or maybe learning) patienceCalabar has a set time frame for riding. It is generally about six furlongs, though we have been stretching that of late. And he has funny ways of telling me he thinks we are done. He heads, of course, back to the mounting block at the center of the arena. Regardless of which arena, there is a center and a mounting block signalling his intention to end the session. <div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Ears of displeasure</td></tr>
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In the indoor arena, there are trail obstacles set up. We have used these often as part of our cool down time so he believes if we do them, the riding should come to and end if he heads towards them. Regardless of where we are in our ride. We have also ended with a few jumps a little cross rail, so he will also wander over there in hopes of getting back to his dinner.</div>
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I am not an ogre. If he is doing what I am asking without arguing, I don't drill him endlessly and we end on a good note. However, if there is grumpiness or a little too much attitude, well, we have to work a little longer. </div>
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This leads, as you may guess, to a little conflict now and again. </div>
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Becoming impatient and bossy with Calabar is a losing battle. He is 1,200 pounds of opinion and unless I convince him we are having fun, I will not win. So, yes, sometimes I interrupt our collection and dressage work to jump over the cross rails a couple times. I don't care about form or how he comes out of it--we can worry about that later--I am more concerned that he gets to do something he likes so we can go back to doing what will help both of us be better in the long run. </div>
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Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-42667289281799905422013-11-09T19:37:00.001-08:002013-11-09T19:37:57.881-08:00A Few Photos from Breeders' Cup 2013For the second year in a row, I ventured down to sunny Southern California and Santa Anita for Breeders' Cup to promote awareness of Thoroughbred Aftercare. This year, Steve joined us and did a fantastic job handing out turquoise bracelets to the thousands of attendees to this premier racing event.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A Wear-To-Care bracelet worn by none other than Goldencents, winner of the Breeders' Cup Dirt Mile (Photo courtesy of <a href="http://www.carma4horses.org/" target="_blank">CARMA</a>.)</td></tr>
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While there, I got to practice some of my newly gained photography skills--no more using the Auto setting for me--on some of the most beautiful subjects in the world.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Note: Flag race program while photographing or shortly thereafter so we know who's looking at us.</td></tr>
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And just so you don't think I only photograph tall, dark brown horses:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Pretty red horse after a race. Distracted once more by beauty, details are lacking.</td></tr>
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And for Lena Rey, a spotty pony horse taking a break between races:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Not too bad for a dark, indoor shot. It's the spots, they help.</td></tr>
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This horse appears to be worried that the human is blocking his photo opportunity:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You're in front of the camera, dude.</td></tr>
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And there is something in this shot that I just love, some energy between horse and handler as they center on each other with everything spinning around them:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">His hat says "Street Girl," so.. Street Girl?</td></tr>
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Got a few shots of the races, too, but often there are heads in my way. Go figure. However, there are names!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Gary Stevens on Beholder</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Authenticity and Close Hatches before the Distaff</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Golden Ticket before the Dirt Mile</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Goldencents before (winning) the Dirt Mile</td></tr>
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I'm still editing, looking for photos that are without human heads or are otherwise interesting. My photo skills are still improving, but I'm having fun with it all and obviously love the subject matter.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Same gorgeous horse pictured above in black and white. Hubba hubba.</td></tr>
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Breeders' Cup is a two-day extravaganza of racing with some of the finest horses in the world parading right in front of you. This year also visited the event with tragedy. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/03/sports/fillys-death-overshadows-a-triumph-at-the-breeders-cup.html?_r=0" target="_blank">Secret Compass and jockey John Velazquez</a> both paid a terrible price to be part of Breeders' Cup. My snapshots are meant to tap the wonder I feel in the presence of beings that seem not of this earth sometimes, not diminish the loss of a beautiful horse and injury of a talented rider. <div>
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Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-28811805876819270602013-10-28T21:53:00.000-07:002013-10-28T22:38:52.352-07:00Milestones<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Calabar and I have ridden quite a journey together--from both of us not knowing much to knowing a little and trying a lot to figuring out what we can work on that is fun for both of us. Along the way, we've had some great teachers and terrific support from a lot of people. Peter (my barn owner) teases me a lot but also pushes gently when it's time for me to be a little braver. Steve, of course, has always been there for me and for Calabar, telling me to trust myself and trust my horse. Karen has been supportive and always offers a trick or two based on the two personalities involved. Katie tells me all the time I'll be fine and she's usually right. Allie dares me to just go for it and applauds Calabar and me for all our efforts.</div>
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It seems like it's all helped us make some progress! At a recent clinic with our favorite Dressage instructor <a href="http://www.ellenecksteindressage.com/" target="_blank">Ellen Eckstein</a>, Calabar and I managed to eke out a rather decent trot. Better than that, we worked through some fussiness and behavior challenges and focused on the work at hand. </div>
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It has sometimes been a hard road for us but the smile on my face at the end of this video plus the attentive and focused expression on Calabar's face says we have made it a good journey. There is more to come, always more to learn, but the joy and the passion persist.<br />
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I love this horse. I love what he has taught me and how far we have come together. I can't wait to see what we can do next! To all of you who have supported us and believed in us, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. We may have gotten this far without you, but it wouldn't have been as much fun.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Smiles after the clinic. Love this horse.</td></tr>
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-84015080734090151432013-08-16T13:20:00.000-07:002013-08-16T13:20:24.569-07:00An ex-racehorse named Calabar and his spotty friend LenaLena Rey was our first horse. She is big and beautiful and knows it. She likes to run fast but it is good for her mind to slow down and focus. Her friend Calabar is the opposite. He needs to speed up to get his mind pointed the right direction.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Oh, he looks good in black and white</i></td></tr>
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Funny we have ended up with two such different horses, but then again maybe not.<br /><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Allie and Lena moving slowly--Lena is listening very hard</i></td></tr>
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When Lena starts to amp up--usually by the gate and almost always before I've asked her to--I turn her. We do serpentines or circles, sometimes across the whole darned arena for awhile. Because once she starts going, you've lost the concentration battle and there will be no more learning thereafter for either of you. Sometimes this is okay. Steve likes to just go out and ride and enjoy each other and the freedom of the gallop. I tend towards a little more work on my part and that requires a little more concentration on Lena's part. I can't work on my position and my posting if we are galloping. She can't work on her long trot and transitions if we're galloping. "It's good for you," I say. "Pbbbbbbrrrth," she says, blowing air out in a big sigh of resignation. Actually, I hope it's relaxation but my guess is it depends on the day.<br />
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Calabar rarely amps up. He would prefer to stand in the middle of the arena and watch other horses do all the work but he is always willing to be saddled and--once we get rolling--he works for me. And he works pretty hard. He is learning collection at the ripe old age of 13 and it's not so easy for him. "Why can't I balance with my neck, it's what I've always done??" he snorts. I explain that it's much better to use his whole body and he says that would be easier if I wasn't such a spaz in the saddle, but okay.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Beautiful boy, goofy rider</i></td></tr>
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Yesterday, I felt a more balanced horse than I've ever felt. We long trotted over a pole both ways without even the slightest hesitation or hitch in his stride. Then we cantered over it both ways without hesitation. He flowed. I mostly went along with him and must not have gotten in his way too much.<br />
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He's not perfect. I have to get him moving and then ask for collection and contact, but that's okay. He's building up his muscles and learning to support himself (and me) and we'll get there together. He is trotting lovely circles in frame and his canter (yep, still cantering in the outdoor, woo!) is beautiful. It's better when I remember to bend and relax, but he is tolerant of my stiffness in a way he hasn't always been. I think that means that somewhere along the line, this horse and I have bonded.<br />
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I know it means we're moving forward on our journey together.<br />
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And as for Lena, she and I are remembering how to ride together, too. That's good for both of us and is probably good for Calabar, too. Lena teaches me to slow down and focus. Calabar pushes me to, well, push us both.<br />
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What a wonderful thing to have two such amazing horses in my life, each of them showing me something different about myself.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-9340883444553644402013-08-14T22:13:00.000-07:002013-08-14T22:13:37.229-07:00Long overdue updateWell thing have moved along without me documenting a lot of it here, but that has become the theme for 2013.<br />
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Dixie, my almost-horse, has found a much more suitable home with a young woman who is so delighted with her it shines through in every email update she sends me and in every photo I've taken of them since the day they picked her up.<br />
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Clyde has moved to a new barn with his sponsor and future adopter, Mary Sue. We are hoping the move helps clear up his hives (his immune system is figuring things out), but mostly it's a better fit for him and for Mary Sue.<br />
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So we are currently between Neigh Savers horses which means--gasp! I have a lot of time for my own horses and maybe to do a little writing, too.<br />
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Calabar is coming along nicely with his Dressage work, sometimes despite my input. I rode Lena recently, too, and realized what a different horse she is from Calabar. I knew this, of course, but it was good to practice the difference. And to sit a trot. That was a nice change. She needs more work than she's getting right now--Allie is in Scotland and then is going off to get her Masters in the East Bay. Good for Allie but kind of a bummer for us. On the other hand, it will be good to ride Lena more often if I can make that happen. The balance between the two horses is interesting and instructive.<br />
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AND we have a new-to-us recycled cat named Simon. He is a Siamese and talks like one. He is ten (we think) and has so far exhibited only a minor interest in the outside sometimes. He loves sitting in Steve's lap wherever Steve happens to be seated. I don't think Simon has interrupted any meetings with his distinctive meow, but I'm not here all day with the two of them so I can't swear to that.<br />
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I'm still busy, still working hard and enjoying whatever runs through my days. Life is good and full of slobbery horse kisses. What else would I need? Oh, right. A perpetual supply of fresh carrots.<br />
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<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-59878586262836440902013-07-12T21:09:00.000-07:002013-07-12T21:09:32.060-07:00Turning a page on fearLife offers ongoing lessons and life with horses tends to provide multiple chances to find out just how much there is left to learn. Since he bounded into my life in 2007, the road has been interesting for Calabar and me. We've had ups and downs--definitely a few moments of fear and frustration, but so many more of absolute joy and connection. He greets me at his gate every day, always ready to ride, always willing to give a good snuggle.<br />
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It has not always been easy, but from day one there has always been something between this big brown horse and me.<br />
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In fact, the very things that drew me to Calabar--his energy, his big presence, his straightforward attitude about the way things should go--are the things that have also led to our more painful incidents. The incidents, of course, led to fear, anxiety, less riding, and so on.<br />
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I'm still not where I want to be--galloping along at full speed, carefree and laughing--but I am riding more and enjoying it. I am learning to push him and trust that he'll respond and even if that response is a little belligerent, that I can handle it.<br />
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So far, it's working. He's happier. He's excited to be out with me and hasn't even really tried anything evil. He's a little lazy, but he doesn't get mad when I push him past it. He is attentive and responsive and relaxed. Maybe even a little relieved that I'm taking control so he doesn't have to, both of us responding to the ever-increasing level of trust.<br />
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Trust has been hard. Trust in the form of cantering has been vaguely terrifying and the mere thought of cantering in the outdoor caused hyperventilation. I had not cantered in the outdoor arena for, well, forever--afraid that Calabar might just take off. Or more specifically, that he would take off and I wouldn't be able to control him. In the indoor arena--a more contained environment--there has been cantering and jumping. There have even been various pranks and silly episodes worked through with as much grace and confidence as I can ever muster.<br />
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But the outdoor? With the scary bushes of doom and the wide open spaciness? Oooo.. shiver.<br />
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The other day, my friend Allie (who has been riding both Lena and Calabar) said, "Just do it." So I did. And my horse was good. Even when I got a little off-balance, he kept a happy face and moved forward in a relaxed and calm place.<br />
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Then I slid off his butt backwards just because I could and he sighed and said, "You are ruining the reputation of crazy Thoroughbreds everywhere." I told him it was his fault for taking such a rookie and turning her into a huge fan of crazy Thoroughbreds. So much of a fan that fear is just not an option any more and trust continues to build on itself with every step.<br />
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Next we will try some jumping because I'd like to be a part of something that makes my horse smile this much.<br />
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Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-16023104202318723572013-06-18T18:59:00.000-07:002013-06-18T18:59:05.368-07:00Diving interludeGreetings from San Pedro, Belize, C.A.!<br />
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Steve and I are on an adventure full of sand, salt water and some crazy weather--all of this is fantastic, even if there are no ponies in sight.<br />
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And what are we doing here? Why, enjoying our other intense and possibly dangerous hobby--scuba diving. What am I doing this very second? Digesting a fine meal and trying to stay awake for at least another hour because falling asleep at 7 p.m. while on vacation seems so very lame. It may, however, be inevitable after diving today in post-storm seas and knowing we head out at 5:30 a.m. tomorrow for a full day of diving. Late-night partying at the local disco seems unwise, or it does for me as I prefer to be fairly well-rested, coherent and alert when I'm headed underwater.<br />
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We did miss one day of diving thanks to <a href="http://www.weather.com/news/weather-hurricanes/tropical-depression-storm-two-20130617" target="_blank">Tropical Depression Two</a> which smacked into Belize with high winds, storm surge and a lot of sideways rain. If it had made it to Tropical Storm level, it would have been TS Barry, but it went the land route and is staying at TD level and dumping large amounts of rain on it's way west. On it's way through here, it blew things around, uprooted sea grass and knocked over part of the dive shop's dock.<br />
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Luckily, we had at least gotten some diving in before the storm hit--two dives Saturday and the epic awesomeness that is the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Blue_Hole" target="_blank">Great Blue Hole</a><span id="goog_392672082"></span><span id="goog_392672083"></span><a href="http://www.blogger.com/"></a> Sunday in the rain that preceded TDT. Incredible experiences that made sitting out yesterday mostly almost okay and gave us an adventure-filled day with our wacky and entertaining group of fellow divers. Golf carts are a great form of transportation, even in the rain, and you can in fact catch air at ten miles an hour. Who knew? No, I was not driving.<br />
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Tomorrow, we head out to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turneffe_Atoll" target="_blank">Turneffe</a> for a three-dive day with lunch and hopefully some sunshine. My skin does not yet look like I've been in the tropics, but a tan was only one of my very minor goals.<br />
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The major goals of diving as much as possible and absorbing copious amounts of warm salt water through my skin are being met to the very best of my ability. Staying awake much longer, however, is a goal rapidly slipping away from me tonight.<br />
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More soon, I hope--then back to the horses when we get home.Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-13024516184372575282013-06-01T16:57:00.000-07:002013-06-01T16:57:17.267-07:00Emotional Intelligence<div>
Working with horses has had a combined effect of both improving and muddling up my interactions with my fellow humans. <a href="http://rtfitchauthor.com/2013/05/30/researchers-find-working-with-horses-increases-emotional-intelligence-in-humans/" target="_blank">This article</a> discusses research showing a link between possible improvement to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence" target="_blank">emotional intelligence</a> and interaction with horses. This makes perfect sense to those of us who frequently wear eau de horse as our perfume of choice. Less obvious is the irritation we sometimes feel when our human interactions become exercises in uncovering the real meaning in that well-worded but obviously false statement. </div>
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Horses mirror our moods and emotions. They do not care why we are exhibiting a particular flavor of attitude, but they will react to it and throw it back at us--sometimes in large and spectacular ways. Humans do this too, but often with a whole lot of other crap tossed in on top of it totally unrelated to the actual conversation. It's probably why horse people often get labeled as "blunt," among other less-flattering terms. </div>
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You can't lie to horses and nuances are lost on them--they read intent and body language better then you do any day--so most of us have given up trying. This naturally bleeds over on occasion to our human interactions, though those on the other side do not always appreciate the less subtle approach some of us have adopted. And there are those people and situations requiring more nuance and delicate handling than a crop in the face--only figuratively, I swear--to remind them about personal space and respect.</div>
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On the plus side, tossing horse-references at non-horse people often distracts them from whatever idiotic drama they are planning. I had a customer--one who had been terrorizing the entire staff for several days--come up to me and say something about not really being scary to which I replied, "You're not scary, I ride Thoroughbreds." It took the next several sentences right clean out of her mouth which was quite delightful since most of them would surely have irritated me.</div>
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Thankfully for my sanity, and apparently my emotional intelligence, spending time with the much-easier to deal with and not particularly scary horses in my life keeps me on enough of an even keel that even the most aggravating human doesn't usually get to me. There are exceptions, but they disappear in my rear view mirror on the way to the barn and Calabar is quite good at reminding me just where my focus needs to be and it is most definitely not on the irritating customer.</div>
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If any one horse has taught me to be direct, clear and calm, it's Calabar. And if any horse has helped me be a better owner to Calabar, to tone down my energy and feed that calmness into any given situation, it's Dixie. If only Calabar could recognize her positive influence, he might not glare at her when he sees us together. </div>
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Actually, he seems to have realized something lately. Or I am channeling calmness and confidence better thanks to my small part in helping Dixie survive her stall-rest without further injury--either physical or mental. She required stillness from her handlers to offset the energy rippling under her skin--energy trapped in a 12x12 box with nowhere to go except circling to stir up poop, hay and shavings, banging into walls or snaking a well-placed nip at an unsuspecting stall cleaner. She was not easy to handle inside or outside her stall which made it that much more important to remain relaxed and confident, not chastise her for being herself and simply give her a safe place to go with all that fire in her soul that made her the winning racehorse she was.</div>
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And we did it--she is now the picture of a relaxed ranch horse, watching the happenings around her with a calm eye and getting ready to school us all on how to properly motivate a smart horse like her. </div>
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Through all of that, I've come out the other side a little more sure of my own abilities and a little less nervous about my own horse because Dixie helped me "get" him better. Working on my seat, riding with more symmetry (or as much as my crooked self can manage) is also helping, but the increased peace inside me seems to be translating to him the most. His eye is softer, his body more relaxed and he is asking me to do more each time we ride. Even at dinner time, even when he's hanging out with Forrest, he comes up to me ready to go ride.</div>
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Oh, there is still much more work to be done--horsemanship is never be a finished work, always a work-in-progress and more to learn even with the horse you know best. </div>
Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-7017887799438205692013-05-25T22:15:00.003-07:002013-05-25T22:15:52.696-07:00Good year for horses, bad year for bloggingThis year is flying by--so fast and so full of fantastic experiences with the vastly different horse personalities in my life that the documentation side of this likely life-long project has come to a screeching halt.<br />
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Yep. I think we can safely--possibly officially--say horses will be an ongoing work-in-progress for me.<br />
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Today--after a brief but slightly terrifying stint of shopping--I got to play with both of my own horses, which was quite a treat. We just took them to the round pen, but Lena Rey showed just how fast and balanced she can be in a tight circle. Both ways. Round and round she went until she began to relax and stretch down, which was the goal. Well, the goal for me anyway. Lena wanted to go for a nice trail ride on the beach but holiday weekends on the coast are not great for feeling safe when pulling a horse trailer. Vacationing hordes do not make for stress-free hauling. Trust me.<br />
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Then on to Bar, who walked up to me and practically shoved his face into his halter. "Finally you're going to play with ME! Yay!"<br />
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He's really not neglected, he just thinks he is.<br />
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He started out relaxed and got even more relaxed, dropping his head into a perfect perpendicular and licking and chewing through all three gaits. What he really wanted was to do some more jumping like we did the other night but sadly there were chores at home to do and one of us is new at her job and has to work Sunday and Monday. Bah. It would be much worse if I didn't love my job. Of course, winning the lottery would not be so bad, either.<br />
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But until then, I balance all my equine friends as best I can--trying to be sure everyone gets at least a little of my attention.<br />
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The blog, on the other hand, needs some TLC. And soon. I just have to find a teensy bit more time in the day. Week. Month?<br />
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Eh, it will happen. Eventually. Right?Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32796999.post-31644458365645638022013-05-05T20:43:00.002-07:002013-05-05T20:45:31.484-07:00Back to the basics with a bit of a twistI have not been riding as consistently as Calabar and I need and riding sporadically--in addition to not reinforcing the things we need to work on--always brings out my aches and pains.<br />
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I have a twist. My pelvis rotates up and to the right, seemingly of its own accord. Old injury, habitual muscular-skeletal protection, new injuries--all of it combine to torque my spine in new and interesting ways. Ways that my horse in all his glorious and sensitive nature notices with varying degrees of response depending on his mood and level of patience. Ways that reinforce the problems in both horse and rider and can lead to less productive riding and--more importantly--less fun.<br />
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This is not an excuse, merely an observation of the facts as we now know them. Working in a chiropractic office offers new opportunities to both observe and maybe even begin to correct (as best we can) my own confirmational faults and in doing so, be a better rider and maybe even help make my horse a more balanced horse.<br />
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My chiropractor-in-chief gave me a chapter to read that illustrates common equestrian chiropractic complaints. Lo and behold, many of them sounded extremely familiar. "Oh, that explains the bruise I get there sometimes," and "Hm, that is something that hurts all the time." Several of the illustrations in the article were from a book I own and had not opened in awhile--<i><u><a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=centered+riding+sally+swift&tag=googhydr-20&index=aps&hvadid=4574581375&hvpos=1t1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=175060571531664132&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=b&hvdev=c&ref=pd_sl_64ev2odjfv_b" target="_blank">Centered Riding</a><span id="goog_1764345553"></span><span id="goog_1764345554"></span><a href="http://www.blogger.com/"></a></u></i> by Sally Swift.<br />
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Oh, how two worlds can sometimes collide in very good ways.<br />
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So I gave my chiropractor that book (he has several equestrian clients) and then started practicing on Calabar. My horse was amazed at my more evenly balanced seat bones and I had his full attention while I sent my legs to the ground like roots and imagined a ball in my pelvis. Ears on me the whole time. "So nice you're breathing," he said. "And really nice you're not as hiked up off my spine on the left side. Let's just keep this up, shall we?"<br />
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Then, just to add fuel to this fire, I had an adjustment that specifically targeted that twist of mine as well as an extremely inflexible--in the entirely wrong way--left ankle. It appears that dropping the heel as is prescribed is a bit of a chore on that side.<br />
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"Oh ho!" said Calabar, "You've been doing something!"<br />
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Add to this a (new/used) saddle wide enough for his broad shoulders and suddenly I have a horse with movement that is much more free and loose, movement I'm working hard to mimic as we loosen up his corkscrewed rider.<br />
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This horse of mine has taught me many things, sometimes in rather painful ways, but his willingness to participate as I learn to balance us out means we've done a few of those things right along the way.<br />
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The smooth canter he gave me--from a walk--with upright, happy ears says so, too.<br />
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We have a ways to go, Calabar and me, but the journey is the best part. Especially with happy ears.<br />
<br />Jessica Boydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08205857670509918766noreply@blogger.com2